TAKE HIM OFF THE PEDESTAL & THROW HIM IN THE HIGHCHAIR!


Take Him Off The Pedestal….

&

Throw Him In The HIGHCHAIR!

O.M.G.!  Yesterday’s Trending Topic was amazing!  It tied perfectly with Monday’s entry:

Disappearing Acts….AKA……Mr. Unavailable…AKA Mister M.I.A.

Yall, to keep it totally copasetic, I didn’t realize that so many women were experiencing THE…SAME…EXACT…. situation as myself!  It’s a hot mess yall, but we do have to take some responsibility in:

Why we feel……
the way we feel…..
about { who..ev..er } it is we are feeling…….
a certain way about…
yall liked that play on words huh? Lol….I digress…..

Some of the #IKnewItWasOverWhen’s were:

@lealea0904 was on the money when she said:  it’s always I Love You too, you’re never the one to say it first

@ITookYoCandy told the truth expressing: he’d go from i love u, u my wifey…to not hearing from him at all like he disappeared…i should mention him huh lol

@Mamaazita never lied when she said: you stopped putting that effort in to keep me like you did to get me…

BUT……
The number one #TWEET….#ReTweeted over 100x’s?

@TweetFacts: u began to treat me like an option instead of a priority.

Wow! I just said that in “Disappearing Acts”…Profound…..Ladies…..Just Flabbergasting….

TIME TO…..

TAKE HIM OFF THE PEDASTAL AND THROW ‘EM IN THE HIGHCHAIR!

That’s right….it’s time for us to #STOP dealing with the buffoonery! 
#STOP with being the shuga mama….just because your coffee is Black and you need sum shuga!
#STOP with providing the excuses…for THE EXCUSE————–>HIM!
#STOP with the tears ALREADY….your makeup’s runnin’, your nose is raw AND your eyes are puffy….plus you’ve given yourself a headache with all the ANIMAL KINGDOM COONERY. Plus it’s not cute, sexy or remotely enchanting!
& my personal favorite……

#STOP….

OPENING….

YOUR….

LEGS!

Okay, let me delve ah little here.  Personally, I have a confession…..I’ve been celibate.
Celibate WITH A CAPITAL “C”, since 2005!  Anyone who knows me, like really knows me…knows this.  It’s a choice that I made after I decided I wanted to be a Queen to a King….to be married.  I feel that if a woman wants to be married, there are just certain things that you have to get IN order before you are a wife. 
For me, it was a covenant to God, a PROMISE…..and I don’t make promises I can’t keep.  Plus, I see it as an extremely special gift for that lucky man I get to call, “Husband”. 

Ooooooh, whoever he is gonna get the….
Woooooooooooo……LAWD….JESUS…..Lemme #STOP! LOL….But for real though….
Father GAWD! 
Anywho….I’m not saying I’m perfect, because I’m not……..& celibacy isn’t easy…..
but CLOSING your legs is. 
I am not here to judge what you should do personally, because I am not you….but I do know that during the time that you DON’T have sex, you are able to weed out the dudes that are only after the goodies.
Trust me…..I had a bad habit of telling guys that I date that I was celibate and they ran FASTER than an OLYMPIC track star, but they ran….PURRRFECT!  I wasn’t trying to run them off, but it was better for me in the long run.  It was better for me spiritually and emotionally & physically.
It can be done.  Men do not equate love and sex as women do. 

They can separate it…EASILY….which, if you are okay with that then….cool… but most of us are not
Demand Respect by RESPECTING yourselves first and putting the cookie in the cookie jar and keeping it there until the right one takes it out!

*Check out my Steve Harvey Audition at http://www.youtube.com/anjiray27*  I didn’t get the part, but I did just quote that last sentence from his new movie…. “Think Like A Man” …..keepin’ it real!  Plus you get to put a voice with my words…couldn’t hurt….Act Like a Lady, Think Like A Man Audition is the title.

How you gonna spend so much money on a guy that’s no good……….. EXCEPT in bed? 
Girl……

*slowly shakes head*

#STOP!

#STOP calling that man, #TEXTIN that man, #EMAILING that man, #TWEETING that man, #FACEBOOKIN’ that man, #IM’ING that man, #SENDIN’ DOVES….seagulls….FedEX’s…..UPS’s….APB’s OUT…..
…. on THAT man! 

Lawd Ladies, for  realz….we gotta let THE CHASE…. just….happen.
Because every man LOVES THE CHASE…they LIVE for it! 

Now, let’s not confuse this with games….two different things.
THE CHASE is what happens when YOU…..LIVE!
THE GAMES happen when YA don’t. 
It’s that simple. That simple. 

I can say this because I learned from experience.  Not just with dude I was telling you guys about, because trust me…I had my times when I did call him, but the frequency (AND…IT WASN’T THAT MUCH TO BEGIN WITH) dwindled as I realized that I was no longer a priority, but an option.

If he want’s to play games…..throw his butt in the playpen, stroller, walker, cradle, swing set……take him to the playground or better yet, McDonald’s….or my personal favorite…Chick Fila…..they have PLAYLANDS there!

Real women don’t play games, but we are honest and forthright in what we want from men.  If you want a relationship, say that.  If you want to be married, tell him that.  If you just want sex……………
Girlllllllllllll……..

You might be ah #HOE…. BUT…let him know you ARE a HOE and AT THE VERY LEAST….GET PAID FOR IT! 

 (Disclaimer…I am not endorsing prostitution…..but I am also not endorsing idiocy either)

#JustSayin’ lol

Bottom line ladies, let’s be true to ourselves and to the men who come into our lives.  Either way at the end of the day….whether they are down like four flat tires or RUN to the ends of the EARTH like a Wild Banchee….they have no choice but……..to respect ya!

Thanks for readin’….and stay tuned…..my next ENTRY IS GONNA BE OFF.. THE ….CHAIN!!!!!

Topic:  FASHION DISASTERS IN TODAY’S GENERATION…..AND…I….MEAN…..# CATASTROPHIES

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Anji Ray

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Anji Ray: An*jee Rey -noun Panamanian Princesa. A force. A lover. A Fighter. 5-Star. Trained. Classy. Ready. Actor. Groundling In Training. Facebook.com/anjirayproductions
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