Love & Hip Hop Review

 

Ok, so I’m gonna be brief…

This is a H.A.M.! A HOTT ASS MESS!

I’m going to skip all the hoopla and get right to it…..

Chrissy shouldn’t have stole Kimbella like that…Kimbella was right, it wasn’t her business but that also..wasn’t the time to be telling folk that you slept with her man…while she was preggers….& GIRLZ Kimbella DID know that Fab was with Emily….I know a liar when I see one.

Chrissy didn’t like Kimbella when she came to the jewelry party to begin with.  Talkin’ bout it wasn’t appropriate to wear #JeanPanties to a “Professional Gathering”…..Ummmmmmm if that was the case, then yall allllll should have been in Suits. 

Chrissy should close her legs when seated….it is not “Professional” to sit like you are on the bench of a NBA game girl. 

Mama Jones is a mess!  I love her!  She does get Jazzy with her mouth, but hey.  This is my thing….If Mama Jones is allowed to speak to Chrissy that way and Jim never checks it, then who dropped the ball?  Not Jim and Not his mother!

Chrissy, Chrissy, Chrissy, WHY would you go buy a #REPLACEMENT ring for a dude who ain’t even give YOU an engagement ring yet?  #Fail

He can buy you diamond earrings, but no engagement ring? 

#FAIL

Somaya, I guess you’re off the hook this season, because it looks like Kimbella took your place. And lay off the carbs girl….it shows.

And oh….

Can someone please tell me why ONE’S WEAVE would be scattered about the floor after a brawl?  Girlfriend shoulda took some of that money and invested it in some ExtensionsPlus.com or a FIYA lacefront! 

If my weave was on the floor like that…all in the camera’s view….HELL in America’s View…

I

WOULDA

HIT

THAT TRICK WITH ALL MY MIGHT!

&

WOULDA HAD THEM CUT THAT OUT IN THE EDITING ROOM…

JUST SAYIN’…

That’s all folk…stay tuned for future updates and a video review coming real soon!

Love Yall!

xoxoxo Anji Ray

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Mandingo….

 
Hey Fellaz! 

So, I know I’ve been on a #GirlPower Rant for the last couple of days and I wanted to just keep it balanced….. And let you know we appreciate yall!
I know yall’s attention span is short:

#JUSTsayin…..its proven….no shade…..so I wrote a poem, that I think all or not most women want from yall….

 

 

MANDINGO

Your touch, smell, and presence drives my secret spot to unbelievable measures
Oh, #Mandingo lead my tribe to a valley or a desert

Please caress my flesh, massage my soul, kind sir…make me whole
Oh, #Mandingo lead my tribe to a valley or a desert

Your lips, taste, and name shot my body temperature to exaggerated domains
Oh, #Mandingo lead my tribe to a valley or a desert

Serenade me into a sensual trance, surrender you love into my landmark unnamed.
If you want you can even stroke my mane,
Oh, #Mandingo lead my tribe to a valley or a desert

Intensify our status, if you will
I’m your Queen, your Mistress, You Lover Indeed…I’m All Three
Oh #Mandingo lead my tribe to a valley or a desert

I’m a little bit of this, a dab of that, a splash of woman, a sprinkle of child, a pinch of baby, can I be your lady?  Maybe?
Oh, #Mandingo lead my tribe to a valley or a desert

Let me be your backbone, your other half, Your Leo
Let me be the bearer of our family
Oh Mandingo let me be your soul-mate, your play-mate, and PLEASE….dont’ make me wait,

If you agree to let me be all that you need…
Mandingo….. you WILL lead my tribe into a valley AND desert

 

 

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xoxoxo

Anji Ray

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TAKE HIM OFF THE PEDESTAL & THROW HIM IN THE HIGHCHAIR!

Take Him Off The Pedestal….

&

Throw Him In The HIGHCHAIR!

O.M.G.!  Yesterday’s Trending Topic was amazing!  It tied perfectly with Monday’s entry:

Disappearing Acts….AKA……Mr. Unavailable…AKA Mister M.I.A.

Yall, to keep it totally copasetic, I didn’t realize that so many women were experiencing THE…SAME…EXACT…. situation as myself!  It’s a hot mess yall, but we do have to take some responsibility in:

Why we feel……
the way we feel…..
about { who..ev..er } it is we are feeling…….
a certain way about…
yall liked that play on words huh? Lol….I digress…..

Some of the #IKnewItWasOverWhen’s were:

@lealea0904 was on the money when she said:  it’s always I Love You too, you’re never the one to say it first

@ITookYoCandy told the truth expressing: he’d go from i love u, u my wifey…to not hearing from him at all like he disappeared…i should mention him huh lol

@Mamaazita never lied when she said: you stopped putting that effort in to keep me like you did to get me…

BUT……
The number one #TWEET….#ReTweeted over 100x’s?

@TweetFacts: u began to treat me like an option instead of a priority.

Wow! I just said that in “Disappearing Acts”…Profound…..Ladies…..Just Flabbergasting….

TIME TO…..

TAKE HIM OFF THE PEDASTAL AND THROW ‘EM IN THE HIGHCHAIR!

That’s right….it’s time for us to #STOP dealing with the buffoonery! 
#STOP with being the shuga mama….just because your coffee is Black and you need sum shuga!
#STOP with providing the excuses…for THE EXCUSE————–>HIM!
#STOP with the tears ALREADY….your makeup’s runnin’, your nose is raw AND your eyes are puffy….plus you’ve given yourself a headache with all the ANIMAL KINGDOM COONERY. Plus it’s not cute, sexy or remotely enchanting!
& my personal favorite……

#STOP….

OPENING….

YOUR….

LEGS!

Okay, let me delve ah little here.  Personally, I have a confession…..I’ve been celibate.
Celibate WITH A CAPITAL “C”, since 2005!  Anyone who knows me, like really knows me…knows this.  It’s a choice that I made after I decided I wanted to be a Queen to a King….to be married.  I feel that if a woman wants to be married, there are just certain things that you have to get IN order before you are a wife. 
For me, it was a covenant to God, a PROMISE…..and I don’t make promises I can’t keep.  Plus, I see it as an extremely special gift for that lucky man I get to call, “Husband”. 

Ooooooh, whoever he is gonna get the….
Woooooooooooo……LAWD….JESUS…..Lemme #STOP! LOL….But for real though….
Father GAWD! 
Anywho….I’m not saying I’m perfect, because I’m not……..& celibacy isn’t easy…..
but CLOSING your legs is. 
I am not here to judge what you should do personally, because I am not you….but I do know that during the time that you DON’T have sex, you are able to weed out the dudes that are only after the goodies.
Trust me…..I had a bad habit of telling guys that I date that I was celibate and they ran FASTER than an OLYMPIC track star, but they ran….PURRRFECT!  I wasn’t trying to run them off, but it was better for me in the long run.  It was better for me spiritually and emotionally & physically.
It can be done.  Men do not equate love and sex as women do. 

They can separate it…EASILY….which, if you are okay with that then….cool… but most of us are not. 
Demand Respect by RESPECTING yourselves first and putting the cookie in the cookie jar and keeping it there until the right one takes it out!

*Check out my Steve Harvey Audition at http://www.youtube.com/anjiray27*  I didn’t get the part, but I did just quote that last sentence from his new movie…. “Think Like A Man” …..keepin’ it real!  Plus you get to put a voice with my words…couldn’t hurt….Act Like a Lady, Think Like A Man Audition is the title.

How you gonna spend so much money on a guy that’s no good……….. EXCEPT in bed? 
Girl……

*slowly shakes head*

#STOP!

#STOP calling that man, #TEXTIN that man, #EMAILING that man, #TWEETING that man, #FACEBOOKIN’ that man, #IM’ING that man, #SENDIN’ DOVES….seagulls….FedEX’s…..UPS’s….APB’s OUT…..
…. on THAT man! 

Lawd Ladies, for  realz….we gotta let THE CHASE…. just….happen.
Because every man LOVES THE CHASE…they LIVE for it! 

Now, let’s not confuse this with games….two different things.
THE CHASE is what happens when YOU…..LIVE!
THE GAMES happen when YA don’t. 
It’s that simple. That simple. 

I can say this because I learned from experience.  Not just with dude I was telling you guys about, because trust me…I had my times when I did call him, but the frequency (AND…IT WASN’T THAT MUCH TO BEGIN WITH) dwindled as I realized that I was no longer a priority, but an option.

If he want’s to play games…..throw his butt in the playpen, stroller, walker, cradle, swing set……take him to the playground or better yet, McDonald’s….or my personal favorite…Chick Fila…..they have PLAYLANDS there!

Real women don’t play games, but we are honest and forthright in what we want from men.  If you want a relationship, say that.  If you want to be married, tell him that.  If you just want sex……………
Girlllllllllllll……..

You might be ah #HOE…. BUT…let him know you ARE a HOE and AT THE VERY LEAST….GET PAID FOR IT! 

 (Disclaimer…I am not endorsing prostitution…..but I am also not endorsing idiocy either)

#JustSayin’ lol

Bottom line ladies, let’s be true to ourselves and to the men who come into our lives.  Either way at the end of the day….whether they are down like four flat tires or RUN to the ends of the EARTH like a Wild Banchee….they have no choice but……..to respect ya!

Thanks for readin’….and stay tuned…..my next ENTRY IS GONNA BE OFF.. THE ….CHAIN!!!!!

Topic:  FASHION DISASTERS IN TODAY’S GENERATION…..AND…I….MEAN…..# CATASTROPHIES

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Disappearing Acts….AKA…Mr. UnAvailable….AKA….Mr. M.I.A.!

 

 

 

This one is for all my Girlz!…..and all my guys who wanna know what women really think!

Aiight yall…since we are up to speed on my career hustle, let’s get to the DRAMA!!!!!  Cuz you know I keep a little! And I know you’ve been waitin’!

 
So, I am going to keep it 100% with yall….I had a little boo I was crushing on hard….but it didn’t work out.  

If you follow me on Twitter @AnjiRay or on Facebook/anjiray I’m quite certain that you’ve read a couple of my little “Love-Gone-Blind-Posts”.

BUT…..Before I get into the nitty, gritty…let me make this disclaimer:

This is by NO MEANS a man-hating, women-thou-art-scorned, male-bashing post.  This is in fact how I decompress and get my point across in plain ole’ BLACK N’ WHITE, while maybe helping other women who may be going through the same thing.

 
So, here’s the skinny….
He was good on paper, REAL GOOD:
FINE, EDUCATED, CHARMING, FUNNY, BUSINESS-MINDED, INDUSTRY, & MOTIVATED.  These were some of the quality characteristics of what I prayed in a potential mate.

BUT……

IT was ALL SMOKE N’ MIRRORS….

Hol’ up….hol’ up….hol up……hol up…..…..

“Anji, REPEAT all that again?”

Uh, uhhhhh….yall read it correctly.  SMOKE N’ MIRRORS!

We 1st met on January 28th, 2011….. I just thought he was a cool cat….you know?

…..a lil dude that you hang out with (Not on a sexual level) but someone to talk, laugh, and basically just cut up with.  

I had ZERO clue that he was pursuing me.  #Blindsided

I was not actively “Looking For A Man”.  I date and have been dating, so ladies we know when someone is trying to holla.  

It wasn’t like that with this one.

We never had an un-pleasurable moment together…..just many apart.

Oh…YALL..let me keep this ONE HUNDRED…..

I didn’t realize that dude was even trying to get at me like that until…..one time we were kickin’ it and “The Kiss” happened.

Prior to, we had never been out on a date…..not once…
(UNLESS YOU COUNT #FATBURGER, WHICH I MOST CERTAINLY DO NOT)

….no walks in the park or along the beach…
….no hiking to Runyon Canyon…
…NO WEEKLY PHONE CONVERSATIONS….
NO NADA……

Like I said, just chillin at my spot or his…..because I wasn’t looking at him like that….at all.

Once “THE KISS” happened…..Mr. Dream Guy turned into….Mr. Disappearing Acts….

Month 3 or 4…….

Ladies, he started making #UNANNOUNCED VISITS, or as he would like to call them #SPONTANEOUS visits after months or weeks of no contact…
His excuse?…..I need to get my “Anji Fix”…

All the “I missed yous”…..
And the “I don’t know what I want but girl, you just got a piece of my heart”…..
…claiming he loved me…(Note:  Not IN LOVE….)
….claiming I got a piece of his heart….Yall, he was just doing…..THE MOST!

Time for the “Talk”…..

We had a conversation…

I CLEARLY stated what I wanted, which is ultimately to be married & have a family…..meaning I would need to be in a committed relationship….meaning that you would have to be AVAILABLE in order for anything to ensue.  

He stated that he wasn’t “ready” for a relationship……

Cool….

I stated that I’m glad we both understood each other’s position and that NOTHING is going to materialize beyond this friendship.  

I kept it open and real with him ……
&

 THE DRAMA BEGINS….

He begins to say things that would lead me to believe that he has envisioned a future with me…..Now he says he’s ready for a relationship…..as we lay in bed, cuddling.
he holds me close to him….I know his breathing patterns
….He sleeps sexy
….He IS sexy….Charming…Gentle….
I feel safe with him….it feels right……
I’m falling for him…….

But then, he disappears….

“Forgets” to call me on my birthday….which he states is the same day as his mother’s…..

I’ll let that one sink in….

Month 7…..

 
He would call and say he’s coming over…
AND never did…
No “I’m sorry” phone call…..zero explanations….finally….
He says…..
“I’ve been really busy”.
it becomes his habit……
It becomes my fault….
for allowing him to do this to me.

All in all, this guy didn’t appear to be a liar or a manipulator or sketchy or any of that…..

He appeared to be a……..

Mystery…..

He appeared to have a girlfriend, wife, or a multitude of lady friends.  He told me he was “seeing” someone else, not seriously….but not DATING anyone, which I translated into #SCREWING because he MOST DEF. wasn’t getting it over here.

But he still kept coming around……

Month 8…….

Like I said, this “thing” was not by any means sexual beyond kissing….he never tried me…..and I never got the vibe that he was on the #DownLow or shoot for that matter flat out gay!
But he was a mystery and THAT was a #MAJOR RED FLAG!

We as ladies shouldn’t have to teach men manners, that should be #automatic.  
We shouldn’t have to complain and get upset over being stood up < ——— that should NEVER EVER happen to begin with.

We are emotional creatures and we think with our hearts.  We continuously give men chance upon chance to redeem themselves. Creating a plethora of excuses for them full of  “could’ve’s ” & “would’ves” BUT Ain’t’S!  
I’m not into stereotyping men or saying every man is a liar or a dog, because I just don’t believe that.  

I loved him….

But I LOVE myself more.

We as ladies MUST demand R.E.S.P.E.C.T. from men….Hold them #accountable to their word.  If they cannot take our words seriously and casually make US AN “OPTION”, then why on Earth do we make them a “PRIORITY”?!
This is the very definition of insanity….doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results!  

Ladies, ladies, ladies, I learned so much from this “CHAOS EXPERIMENT”…BTW..#google that movie….IT IS THE WORST FILM EVER MADE AFTER “TITANIC II”.

I digress….

I have wasted more breath on explaining to this man, what I like and don’t like, just to be BLATANTLY ignored and emotionally taken advantage of.  He played on my innate weakness of wanting a family, and giving me false hopes, by Yo-Yo’ing back and forth between wanting to be in a relationship, being too busy, and/or  not ready.  

#NotTheBusiness.

These are all B.S. excuses because, if a man wants to be with a woman…

He…..WILL….MAKE…..TIME.
POINT __Blank___PERIOD

If a man REALLY, REALLY wants to be with you….

HE WILL COURT YOU….
DATE YOU….
GET TO KNOW YOU…..

 

Become your best friend…Let you meet his friends,  his family…….because ultimately, in every “potential long-term relationship” that is the ultimate goal.

Oh….

&
Ladies….

Money IS NEVER AN ISSUE!
Why should it be? Validating a man doesn’t require funds…being validated doesn’t require funds.  Are you in it for the money or for the substantial emotional and spiritual connection?  I hope it’s for the latter.  Being around someone doesn’t require money, especially if that man is on the path to success, but just hasn’t reaped the profits yet.  Like I said….
Walks are FREE….
Phone calls are FREE…
HELL…….
NATURE is FREE….You get my drift.

MONTH 9……..

So, if you are hearing the followin’…and…… GIRLFRIEND……… DO NOT FALL for it, like your’s truly did:

“Baby, my money ain’t right…and I know I gotta come correct if I’m trying to be with you..because, that’s just the type of guy I am…I want to give you everything..and share everything with you….I’m trying to get my self together….but I do love you……

I’m just…… not……. ready yet…”

My ANALYSIS:  
Why can’t we do this thing together?  Why can’t I be your ride or die chick? Your #1 Fan?

If a man has time to go clubbing with his boys, hiking with whoever, going out to the movies, & just have a Plain Ole’ good time #socializing with everyone
…BUT……..
…YOU……..
THEN….IT IS TIME TO CLOSE THE CURTAINS ON THAT ACT!  

MY SOLUTION:
#UNFOLLOW , #DELETE#, #UNFRIEND

——————————————————————————————-
As an up note and in closing:

God created man to RULE the Earth & everything in it….including us ladies!  That is not to say we are not supposed to be independent individuals, but we should be submissive to the wants of the men in our lives, IF they are for a good cause by being supportive, congratulating and encouraging.  

So, I still believe in love and I THANK GOD THAT HE SHOWED ME….
HIS….True….Colors…..SHININ’…..THROUGH!

Thnx for reading & I welcome all comments & questions……

“Never make someone a priority if YOU are an OPTION.” ~Anonymous

Stay Blessed & Stay Grindin’
xoxoxo
Anji Ray

America’s Court W/Judge Ross, NCIS-L.A., Dr. House, & Free Agents!

 
NCIS-LA, House, America’s Court W/ Judge Ross & Free Agents!

Man yall!  God is Good!!!!  Over the past couple of months I have been blessed to be on several major network sets…and several independent sets as well…..of course all of this is background work, but I would have never traded it for a moment.  Yeah, well…..I’m lying…I would of traded it for some speakin’ lines, but hell, beggars can’t be choosers & you gotta pay your dues in the industry.  Weather it is working for measly bucks, or for free (which is mostly the case in L.A.).  Either way, ya gotta pay to play.  
I could be detailed about all three experiences, but I won’t.  What I wanted to say was that as an actor, PREPARE….be on time…..LISTEN…..and most importantly……LISTEN.  I have repeatedly heard people ask crew about things that were already discussed in briefing.  I have once again, repeatedly heard BACKGROUND….Who are getting a freakin’ check, COMPLAINING.  COMPLAIN’ about how long they are going to be there for.  COMPLAIN’ about how CREW treat them like ‘ISH every time they work….COMPLAIN’, COMPLAIN’, GOSSIPIN’, COMPLAIN’.  As a trained actor and one who respects the game and the craft it is quite upsetting to me to come across people like that.   It is quite frankly, embarrassing.

The ones that make it nearly impossible to gain the respect of the director from a BACKGROUND actor, the ones who waste film time because they were watching the PRINCIPLE actors, instead of being BACKGROUND….and pissed of the 1st, 2nd, or 3rd AD….or WORSE the DIRECTOR, because they were moving monotonously, or staring DIRECTLY into the camera, or TAKING pictures on a live set, Or, just not hitting your mark.  Whatever the case these are the people you should WATCH closely and AVOID like the plague!  

Not everyone is like this, but there are a lot of people who don’t respect the craft enough to know set etiquette.  And to be honest with you, I’m grateful for these people.  There is a saying that “Ignorance is Bliss”….I can assure you that THAT particular saying does NOT APPLY in Hollywood.  You either know, or you don’t.

I have learned so much by being silent on set that, aside from my training and in-depth knowledge of the craft, I am grateful to have just been able to walk on to the sets of Sunset Gower, Paramount, Fox & Los Angeles Center Studios….just to get paid to say nothing…Well….EXCEPT IN AMERICA’S COURT, WHERE MY EPISODE WRAPPED THE SEASON…I CUT THE HELL UP…AND WON MY CASE!

I would have worked for free to be honest..because I’m in LOVE with #ACTING and every day I thank God for that!  Without HIM I would be NOTHING OR HAVE NOTHING!

‘Til next time my dears…..Smoochez!

Xoxoxoxo

Anji Ray

She’ssssss BACKKKKK!

My sweet adventures in Panama 2011!

O.M.G. you guys!  I am so sorry I haven’t blogged in months!!!  But I have been a busy lady! I went to Panama, Central America this summer and let me just say it was AH….MAZ….ING! I totally needed that vacation.  I haven’t been to Panama since 1996 and sooooo much has changed since then.  From new highways, to improved buses, although, a lot of people still walk miles and miles and miles….along the highways just to go to work.

I mean, if you can imagine walking from let’s say, for those of you in Atlanta, from Gwinnett County to Buckhead, & for my L.A. people, from  Beverly Hills to Koreatown….that’s the kind of walking I’m talking about, and not even for a decent pay, less than $5 a day, and they do that EVERYDAY.  It makes me so grateful for having adequate transportation, albeit, public (oh, my car is in Atlanta).  It nevertheless makes me grateful.  

I had the opportunity to see my family and that was in itself completely humbling.  My family lives in an area called Colon.  It is one of the more poorer cities in the country, with a high crime rate and an even higher poverty rate.  There are high-rises, some as much as 15 stories high, with no water and no running elevators.  You do the math.
I saw people bathing on the streets under fire hydrants.
I saw children playing soccer (futbol) barefoot among the sewage waters….and this is the thing….they were happy.

Everyone was happy.  Know why?

Because Panama is a God-Fearing country.  My people honor the Lord and trust in him completely.  They don’t complain (well, not for the most part).  Everywhere I went there were scriptures on buildings, EVERY BUILDING IT SEEMED had a scripture of some sort.
If I walked to the Botega, which was everyday, someone smiled, everyone said…”Buena Buena” which is translated into “Hello” or literally “Good Good”.  I thought that was pretty cool. Actually, I thought it was awesome.
It wasn’t as though, they were like, “Oh, we’re poor, so let’s be depressed about it.”….It was like, “This is our life, this is how we deal with it and embrace it, and love it”.  

Colon is comprised of a total of 16 streets and there is a Parque (Park) that runs through the very middle of it….and daily, people are HUSTLIN!  Selling chorizos, maize, kudamundai (google that one), sauce, socks, shoes, painting nails (yes ladies, on the sidewalk) pressing hair OUTSIDE, shining shoes, selling cds, WHATEVER!  Daily dominoe games, boxing matches, basketball games, I COULD GO ON AND ON.

The humidity is OUTRAGEOUS, well over 100 degrees…everyday!  It took me two weeks to get accustomed to it, but it does wonders for your skin.  No A/C where I was at, so you already know!  5 showers a day….tons of water etc.  Everyday I would go to the playa (beach) on Calle Primera (1st Street) and watch the cargo ships as they entered the Panama Canal, or I would sit under a palm tree and observe people, write, or just enjoy the moment.  I met Miss Panama 2008 on a whim in the park and honestly, it was the little moments like these that will be forever embedded in my heart.  

The shopping is INSANE!! You could literally take about $3k there and come back to the states LAID OUT for years!  I had to resist going to the Zone Libre (The Free Zone) where there are just blocks and blocks and blocks and blocks (and construction of NEW BLOCKS) of TAX FREE shopping.  

I went hiking in the Ancon Rainforest and experienced a type of serenity that you only read about.  When I signed in (because you know if I came up missing…..SOMEBODY was coming for me! LOL) there were only 5 people signed in, and you have to sign-in, in order to enter the forest….3 were from Europe, 1 from Panama & 1 from the U.S.!  In other words, it wasn’t no #RunyonCanyon or #StoneMountain.  This was real….step on a snake….monkey-flying….birds chirping….ant mounds…..forest.  I was scared to death…but I’m adventurous so, I had my backpack, and my little survival kit in case something went down!  Miss Indiana Jones basically.  

I also enjoyed a nice Red Snapper dinner on the strip, aka The Causeway. Basically, I ate seafood like this EVERYDAY for under $8!  The Causeway is basically a highway that connects several islands together. And when I say it was lovely….it was lovely. Beauty.  Watching the yachts at dock and sipping on a little bubbly during a mid-day summer storm was the ABSOLUTE business!  I will do it everyday as soon as I blow up!
Of course, you also know that I was handling my business with my screenplay I am writing.  Its top secret, but let’s just say, Anji is in the GAME!

My vacation also landed me in Portobello, one of the quaintest towns that I have yet to visit since my trip to Aviano, Italy years back. Once a year, people from Panama City travel approximately 45 miles….by foot….and crawling the last couple of MILES….to this small coastal town to beg for redemption of past sins to the Black Christ (Cristo Negro).   You can google this if you want to know all the in’s and outs.  
All in all, I could probably rant about this trip for a while, but I won’t.  I have footage that I will post as soon as possible that will further add to your imagination.  Until next blog….be blessed!

Xoxoxoxo

Anji Ray

    

Is #Twitter A Playground For Players?

Good Morning L.A.!

OK, so I have a question for all my love-boos. Is Twitter a Playground for Playas?

I think so.

I recently saw a Tweet on my timeline on Twitter with a female’s #Birthing canal in a Twitpic. It was absolutely astonishing and to say the least, DISTURBING as Hell!

Real talk.

So, here I am just scrolling down my timeline on Twitter, being nosy and I see a #comedian’s Tweet with an attached photo of her birthing canal. I’m trying not to be completely visual here, you get it.

So, with my jaws dropped and head shaking I go ahead and check ya boy’s @ mentions. WOW!

There were many accolades and whatnot! Props, good-looking’s, and a plethora of other praises.

I….WAS…FLABBERGASTED!

I was forced to ask if #Twitter was a Playground for Players.

The ho who tweeted this dude her bizness had the audacity to say people were tweeting her and hating on her, calling her a ho and whatNOT.

I’ll let that trifling ‘Ish sink in.

So, sistah girl, you don’t think your actions were the least bit HO’ISH?

#BitchBooPlease! #bye!

Look, the reason why guys find no challenge in women is because of the disaster that I just described.

Twitter Hoes: STOP effing it up for the real Queens, Damn!

As for the players, unless, your timeline is private, us nosy women can find out just about EVERY and ANYTHING about your activities. Just keeping it 100. Real talk.

So, with that note. I really like this one dude, and I spoke with him just before he instructed me to write this particular blog. I hope he understands the semantics of Anji Ray, cause damnit, #ItsComplicated!

Talk to ya in the A.M. Baby!

Xoxoxoxo

Anji Ray

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